[LinP3] Re: A lesson in welfare from a Filipino

I thought Andre's statement "The idea behind giving people welfare
is noble. ... And who would wish for a return to 1930s style
unemployment and depression?" defined the complex nature of the
problem.

Realistically there are always going to be people who need help due
to sickness, bad luck, bad judgment, or incompetence and those who
abuse the system.

The inherent problems of welfare are real but so is the need for
help. Welfare is not a black and white issue.

Phil R

--- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, "justonlybea"
<justonlybea@...> wrote:
>
> as uri88 so succintly put it, you want to destroy a group of
people,
> put them on the dole. from being grateful for it, they progress
to
> thinking they deserve it, until the day comes when the expectation
> is that it's as much a right as, say, the right to life, liberty,
> and property.
>
> --- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, "andre_westbrook"
> <andre_westbrook@> wrote:
> >
> >
> > Last week, I spoke to a Filipino medic who had spent several
> months
> > in the UK. At first he was highly impressed by what he found; he
> > thought he had encountered a higher civilisation. No one went
> hungry,
> > no one was abandoned to his fate, everyone was treated to the
best
> of
> > the doctor's abilities. No distress, however caused, failed to
> evoke
> > any attemtpt to relieve it.
> >
> > 'If only we could have your welfare system,' he said.
> >
> > Some months later, his views had altered considerably. He had
> noticed
> > a strange indefinable malaise among many of the Brits he.
Although
> > fortunate by the standards of Manila slum-dwellers, they lacked
> life
> > and spirit. They were bored and malcontent, and yet apparently
> > unwilling to do anything to alleviate their situation. It did
not
> > take him long to make a connection between this state of
suspended
> > but disgruntled animation and the welfare system which,
initially,
> he
> > had thought so humane.
> >
> > The idea behind giving people welfare is noble. It was too
> alleviate
> > the dire social and economic conditions countries like America,
> > Britian and Germany found themselves in during the 1930s. And
who
> > would wish for a return to 1930s style unemployment and
> depression?
> > But the fact is welfare undermines notions of self-respect and
> over
> > time cultivates a social pathology which in America ultimately
> > required zero tolerance to even begin to turn back the tide of
> anti-
> > social behaviour on the streets of large American cities.
> >
> > Undoubtedly, there are those posters who will flick through
their
> > college books on liberal social studies courses and insist that
> there
> > is a statistical relationship between poverty and crime. In
fact,
> the
> > explosion of crime in countries as diverse as Brazil and the UK
is
> > soley down to a weakening of law and order and ineffective
courts
> > which give sentences that are too lenient.
> >
> > What the Filipnions do not need is yet more welfare and charity
> from
> > those who insist that all Westerners in the Philippines
> have "excess
> > finances". I am sure there are many here who go to the
Philippines
> > with no more than a pension and some savings to live on. If so,
do
> > not allow the liberals here to persuade you that you are
obligated
> to
> > give, give and give again. Do not let them persuade you that to
> judge
> > people as unworthy of your help is a sin - to give money to an
> idle
> > man is to encourage him in his idleness just as to give money to
> the
> > drunk is simply to prolong his dependence on alcohol. Above all,
> > insist that if you do give money it is spent on something useful
> or
> > worthwhile and that it is for the highest good of all concerned.
> >
>

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Re: [LinP3] Questions frequenly asked by Filipinos

What is considered small talk questions and answers can vary a lot
from one culture to another.

For example in North America "How are you" is a greeting and one
usually doen't want details, here in the Philippines and in a lot of
Asia the question "Where are you going" is similiar. When I lived in
China it was concidered small talk to ask "How old are you" and "How
much money do you make".

Phil R
--- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, Paul Agey
<oneiloilojeepney@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Velty,
> I am retired USN and moved here in 2002 and have been here ever
since.
> My wife and I had to setup some ground rules, one of the most
important ones being I will not allow relatives to intervence in my
household affairs unless we ask for it. I will listen politely to
their advice and do what I want to anyways. I avoid any kind of
direct confrontation unless I am backed into a cormer with no other
options. I also refuse to engage in gossip aka cheezemiz.
>
> The questions that bother me the most are those relating to
income. That's just plain none of their business. When pressed I say
enough to be comfortable and that's the end of it. The other one is
why I don't have kids. The answer should be obvious after almost 8
years together, we can't and my wife does not wish to adopt. HTH
>
> Paul in Iloilo
>
>
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: Veltisezar Bautista <bookhaus06@...>
> To: LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Monday, December 31, 2007 7:44:34 AM
> Subject: [LinP3] Questions frequenly asked by Filipinos
>
> As a Filipino American retiree, I have been amazed by what my
fellow
> Filipinos requently ask me. They usually ask me questions such as:
How
> much is your pension? How much salary did you receive while living
in
> the United States? How much is your wife's disability payments. In
> other words, I have been asked personal questions that I think I am
> not supposed to answer. And some of them, including some of my in-
laws
> have been intervening in my household affairs. You should do this,
you
> should do that, they say.
>
> I'm just curious. In your mingling with Filipinos, have many of you
> been questioned about your personal affairs or whatever? What are
the
> questions you have been asked that you hated most?
>
> Thanks.
>
> Veltisezar "Velty" B. Bautista
>
>
>
>
>
>
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