Re: Vedr. [LinP3] Buying cheep touring vehicle for visit

--- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, Geir <ftwno1@...> wrote:
>
> Hello Mark.
> welcome here. I think it is one "problem" with that car,its been
imported from Japan or a country where they drive on the LEFT side and
converted to right side driving in the Philippines.Like many vans
here, i was to buy a Mitsubishi Delica and most of them is imported
used from Japan.I am a little large 184 or about 6 feet and with the
natural weight for my age. Well the problem is after convertion the
old passanger seat become the driver seat but it is never converted to
be slideable so if you are bigger than a philipino you might have a
promlem to sit desent in those imported cars/vans. I tried one Toyota
same year as this but was unable to sit good in it.How can you see
easily if its been imported? The rear sliding door is on the left side
of the car.That might also be a minor problem to let your back seat
passenger enter or leave the car in the traffic side of the car.
> Just my 2 cents...
> Have a good new year and a nice day
> Geir
>
>
I bought a converted Toyota Regius about three months ago. The
passenger/now drivers seat is fully adjustable. No complaints
whatsoever about the vehicle or the conversion. Lots and lots of
legroom back and front.
Steve in Angeles

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[LinP3] ] Re: ferry vs. Airlines

BUT also the quality of your time
I was travelling with my gal and it was glorious for both of us,
limited family distractions, not rushing hither and thither.

It was almost like being on the Loveboat without the icky music and
tiresome stories hehehe

--- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, James Claire
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> I would also factor in some value for your time...
> JJ
>
> William <foradventures@...> wrote:
> James,
>
> It probably depends how far you are traveling.
>
> I did a cost comparison RT from CDO to Manila recently. Cebu
Pacific advance ticket purchase was about 10% higher than the ferry.
So, no, I don't think domestic airfares are a ripoff unless one flies
on PAL.
>
> William
>
> --- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, James Vandever
<vandevers@> wrote:
> >
> > My son says the airline industry is just a big scam and it is
better to use the ferry system than the airlines. Is that true?
> >
> > According to him, it is best to get a private room on one is
about 4,000 pesos or 95 dollars round trip. Is there any thoughts on
this good or bad?
> >
> >
> >
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> >
>
>
>
>
>
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[LinP3] New Years - Manila Style

Wow! Once again!

Those that have never experienced News Years here in Manila (or the whole festive holiday
season for that matter) ... are missing out! What a treat! This city virtually "EXPLODES". The
noise alone is deafening. There I was standing on the helipad of my condo tower (Ermita)
with a 360 degree view of all Metro Manila, just absolutely stunned, words cannot describe
(nor the video) the Filipino passion for celebration! A third world country? I think not! Haha!
The Philippines btw has been the host to two World Pyro Olympics! Both held at the
Esplanade here in the Mall of Asia! I have yet to experience New Years in the provinces, kinda
wonder?

Jerry in wonderful Manila

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[LinP3] Notice: Our New Forum and Happy New Year From the List Guides, Forum Guides


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RE: [LinP3] Re: A lesson in welfare from a Filipino



The
> system actually works incredibly well, even though the complex
> interlinking of the dependencies is very hard to understand and accept
> for many a western husband/boyfriend - many of whom seem to accept
> being taxed for State collective provision of welfare in their home
> country, but cannot accept giving freely to the wife/gf's family in a
> society (which is not taking much tax off them when they are resident
> in Philippines) which does not provide support through the State.

Don writes

This is brilliant insight, above, whoever posted it. And it is not in
conflict with the poster's below

"but I guarantee a majority of members concur with my sentiments.
Regards, Alex.'"

Most foreigners are here will agree with Alex, because it is too hard to
understand and accept. Of course they don't have to. No one holds a gun to
your head here making you pay. It is the system. You can participate or not.
Filipinos do participate. You as a foreigner can keep your ways, keep your
culture, watch Western TV and enjoy your usual life, never make a change it
that it what you want and most do. Maybe Alex, you just stop paying. Most
never start.

I hope you all will join us at http://www.livinginthephilippines.com/forum .
All the sound and the fury will be there soon.

Happy New Year or New Years Eve to you all!!!

Respectfully,
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>
And, for me, herein lies the problem. I have been taxed, at times over-
taxed in my opinion, on the small amount of money I have managed to accrue
over my hard working lifetime. Why should I now be subject to a further,
"dependant family", tax system?
I paid taxes on the money I earnt building a new home for my in-laws.
I paid taxes on the money I earnt providing a tricycle for the brother-
in-law.
I paid taxes on the money I earnt provsioning a sari sari store for my
sister-in-law.
I paid taxes on the money I earnt to educate their 3 sons.
I paid taxes on the money I earnt to bury Lolo.
I paid taxes on the money I sent last week to pay off the 5/6.
I could go on, but I imagine you see my point.

I will help those in need, I will not help those whom I cannot see trying to
help themselves.

This is an internet forum and I proffer my opinion. Do with my opinion as
you wish, but I guarantee a majority of members concur with my sentiments.
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[LinP3] Blue Cross Blue Shield

Does anyone know if there are any hospitals in the Philippines that accepts Blue Cross Blue Shield as full payment. I believe a member mentioned a hospital in Manila but I am not sure.
Thanks. God Bless
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Re: [LinP3] ferry vs. Airlines

James -
It depends on where you are travelling and how much time you have available. In some cases, the fastest way to travel is by fast ferry such as the many routes that connect the various islands in the Visayas. But, given the price you quoted, it is likely that your son is referring to larger ferrys such as the Superferry that travel from Manila to various places in the Visayas and Mindanao. If you can shop ahead of time, you can usually get fares on Cebu-Pacific that are close to the price of a private cabin on the Superferry -- remember that Superferry private cabins are sold by the room and are the same price whether one or two people use the cabin. The cabins also come with three meals (set menu) a day. Transit time can take 1-2 days depending on where you are going as compared to a short flight. We find the ferry a very relaxing way to travel.
Mike.

----- Original Message ----
From: James Vandever <vandevers@att.net>
To: LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sunday, December 30, 2007 9:14:08 PM
Subject: [LinP3] ferry vs. Airlines

My son says the airline industry is just a big scam and it is better to use the ferry system than the airlines. Is that true?

According to him, it is best to get a private room on one is about 4,000 pesos or 95 dollars round trip. Is there any thoughts on this good or bad?

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[LinP3] Re: A lesson in welfare from a Filipino

I thought Andre's statement "The idea behind giving people welfare
is noble. ... And who would wish for a return to 1930s style
unemployment and depression?" defined the complex nature of the
problem.

Realistically there are always going to be people who need help due
to sickness, bad luck, bad judgment, or incompetence and those who
abuse the system.

The inherent problems of welfare are real but so is the need for
help. Welfare is not a black and white issue.

Phil R

--- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, "justonlybea"
<justonlybea@...> wrote:
>
> as uri88 so succintly put it, you want to destroy a group of
people,
> put them on the dole. from being grateful for it, they progress
to
> thinking they deserve it, until the day comes when the expectation
> is that it's as much a right as, say, the right to life, liberty,
> and property.
>
> --- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, "andre_westbrook"
> <andre_westbrook@> wrote:
> >
> >
> > Last week, I spoke to a Filipino medic who had spent several
> months
> > in the UK. At first he was highly impressed by what he found; he
> > thought he had encountered a higher civilisation. No one went
> hungry,
> > no one was abandoned to his fate, everyone was treated to the
best
> of
> > the doctor's abilities. No distress, however caused, failed to
> evoke
> > any attemtpt to relieve it.
> >
> > 'If only we could have your welfare system,' he said.
> >
> > Some months later, his views had altered considerably. He had
> noticed
> > a strange indefinable malaise among many of the Brits he.
Although
> > fortunate by the standards of Manila slum-dwellers, they lacked
> life
> > and spirit. They were bored and malcontent, and yet apparently
> > unwilling to do anything to alleviate their situation. It did
not
> > take him long to make a connection between this state of
suspended
> > but disgruntled animation and the welfare system which,
initially,
> he
> > had thought so humane.
> >
> > The idea behind giving people welfare is noble. It was too
> alleviate
> > the dire social and economic conditions countries like America,
> > Britian and Germany found themselves in during the 1930s. And
who
> > would wish for a return to 1930s style unemployment and
> depression?
> > But the fact is welfare undermines notions of self-respect and
> over
> > time cultivates a social pathology which in America ultimately
> > required zero tolerance to even begin to turn back the tide of
> anti-
> > social behaviour on the streets of large American cities.
> >
> > Undoubtedly, there are those posters who will flick through
their
> > college books on liberal social studies courses and insist that
> there
> > is a statistical relationship between poverty and crime. In
fact,
> the
> > explosion of crime in countries as diverse as Brazil and the UK
is
> > soley down to a weakening of law and order and ineffective
courts
> > which give sentences that are too lenient.
> >
> > What the Filipnions do not need is yet more welfare and charity
> from
> > those who insist that all Westerners in the Philippines
> have "excess
> > finances". I am sure there are many here who go to the
Philippines
> > with no more than a pension and some savings to live on. If so,
do
> > not allow the liberals here to persuade you that you are
obligated
> to
> > give, give and give again. Do not let them persuade you that to
> judge
> > people as unworthy of your help is a sin - to give money to an
> idle
> > man is to encourage him in his idleness just as to give money to
> the
> > drunk is simply to prolong his dependence on alcohol. Above all,
> > insist that if you do give money it is spent on something useful
> or
> > worthwhile and that it is for the highest good of all concerned.
> >
>

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Re: [LinP3] Questions frequenly asked by Filipinos

What is considered small talk questions and answers can vary a lot
from one culture to another.

For example in North America "How are you" is a greeting and one
usually doen't want details, here in the Philippines and in a lot of
Asia the question "Where are you going" is similiar. When I lived in
China it was concidered small talk to ask "How old are you" and "How
much money do you make".

Phil R
--- In LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com, Paul Agey
<oneiloilojeepney@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Velty,
> I am retired USN and moved here in 2002 and have been here ever
since.
> My wife and I had to setup some ground rules, one of the most
important ones being I will not allow relatives to intervence in my
household affairs unless we ask for it. I will listen politely to
their advice and do what I want to anyways. I avoid any kind of
direct confrontation unless I am backed into a cormer with no other
options. I also refuse to engage in gossip aka cheezemiz.
>
> The questions that bother me the most are those relating to
income. That's just plain none of their business. When pressed I say
enough to be comfortable and that's the end of it. The other one is
why I don't have kids. The answer should be obvious after almost 8
years together, we can't and my wife does not wish to adopt. HTH
>
> Paul in Iloilo
>
>
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message ----
> From: Veltisezar Bautista <bookhaus06@...>
> To: LivingInThePhilippines3@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Monday, December 31, 2007 7:44:34 AM
> Subject: [LinP3] Questions frequenly asked by Filipinos
>
> As a Filipino American retiree, I have been amazed by what my
fellow
> Filipinos requently ask me. They usually ask me questions such as:
How
> much is your pension? How much salary did you receive while living
in
> the United States? How much is your wife's disability payments. In
> other words, I have been asked personal questions that I think I am
> not supposed to answer. And some of them, including some of my in-
laws
> have been intervening in my household affairs. You should do this,
you
> should do that, they say.
>
> I'm just curious. In your mingling with Filipinos, have many of you
> been questioned about your personal affairs or whatever? What are
the
> questions you have been asked that you hated most?
>
> Thanks.
>
> Veltisezar "Velty" B. Bautista
>
>
>
>
>
>
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